Think back to a time when you read a bedtime story to a child. Did you read in a monotone voice, or did you bring the story to life – using enthusiasm, gestures, and emotion? A brilliant best man’s speech is no different. You’re not just reading words; you’re telling a story. Finding Your Story Voice is a key part of giving a great speech.
What is Your Story Voice?
Your story voice is the version of your voice that is engaging, dynamic, and full of personality. It’s the voice that naturally draws people in. When you tell a child a story, you instinctively change your tone, emphasize certain words, and use expressive gestures to keep them hooked. That’s exactly what you need to do during your best man’s speech.
How to Use Your Story Voice in a Speech
- Use Energy and Passion – If you’re excited about the story, your audience will be too. Speak with gusto – let your voice reflect your enthusiasm for the moment.
- Emphasize Key Moments – Just like in a children’s story, some moments deserve extra emphasis. Slow down, raise your voice, or even whisper for effect.
- Incorporate Gestures and Expressions – Don’t just stand still. Use your hands, facial expressions, and body language to bring your story to life.
- Engage Your Audience – Imagine your listeners as eager children waiting for the next exciting twist. Look around the room, make eye contact, and invite them into the experience.
A best man’s speech should be fun, heartfelt, and engaging. When you start finding your story voice, you don’t just speak – you create a moment that people will remember. In my How to Prepare a Brilliant Best Man’s Speech course on URVEDA, I help you discover and refine your storytelling skills, ensuring your speech leaves a lasting impression.