When you’re preparing to give a best man’s speech, one of the most powerful tools at your disposal is your own voice. It’s far more advanced than any sound system, and it comes with its own built-in control panel. Imagine you have a sound system where you can adjust the volume, tone, and even the emotional frequency of your voice to perfectly suit the moment. The good news is, you already have this incredible control panel within you – you just need to learn how to use it. Mastering Your Voice is a key skill when it comes to giving a great speech.
Using Your Voice Control Panel
Just like a sound system where you adjust the bass, treble, or volume to match your preferred music, your voice can be tailored to suit different moments in your speech. Here’s how to tune into your voice’s full potential:
- Volume Control: Think of your voice as having a volume knob. You can raise it for emphasis or lower it to draw the audience in during more intimate moments. Pausing with a soft voice often makes a powerful impact.
- Tone Control: The tone of your voice sets the mood of the message. A warm, rich tone can evoke emotion, while a louder, more energetic tone can add excitement. Tailor the tone of your voice to the emotion you want to convey.
- Pacing & Rhythm: Just like music, speeches have their own rhythm. When you pause or change your pacing, you can build suspense or give the audience time to reflect on your message.
The Power is Already Yours
Your voice is your ultimate instrument, and with practice, you’ll learn how to fine-tune it to create a memorable best man’s speech. In my How to Prepare a Brilliant Best Man’s Speech course on URVEDA, I’ll guide you through mastering your voice to create impact and leave a lasting impression on your audience.

