A best man’s speech is more than just words – it’s a performance. Yet, so many people stand up and deliver their speech in a monotone, lifeless voice, as if reading off a list of instructions. This robotic style doesn’t engage, entertain, or inspire. If you don’t speak like a robot in everyday life, why do it in public? Speak with Life, this is key in delivering a brilliant speech.
The Power of Vocal Variety
Your voice is a tool, and using it effectively will bring your speech to life. The way you say something is just as important as what you say. Imagine telling a joke in a flat, expressionless tone – would anyone laugh? Probably not. But if you add pauses, raise your voice for excitement, or even drop to a whisper to build suspense, you instantly captivate your audience.
How to Add Life to Your Speech
- Vary Your Tone – Let your emotions shine through your voice. Be playful when sharing a funny memory, heartfelt when expressing gratitude, and enthusiastic when celebrating the couple.
- Use Pauses for Impact – Silence can be just as powerful as words. A well-placed pause adds drama, allows laughter to settle, and gives your audience time to absorb what you’re saying.
- Play with Volume – Don’t be afraid to raise your voice for emphasis or soften it to draw people in. A whisper before a big punchline can make it even funnier!
- Speak Like You Talk – Natural, conversational speech is engaging. Imagine you’re telling a great story to close friends, not reciting a script.
Mastering vocal variety is a game-changer. In my How to Prepare a Brilliant Best Man’s Speech course on URVEDA, I’ll teach you how to make your speech unforgettable – full of energy, personality, and emotion. So, ditch the robotic tone and speak with life!